Dean M Gray

1970 Long Beach, California Jordan High School Senior Graduation Prom Date with Sondra James the ballerina and Homecoming Queen.

July 3, 2026

A GRADUATION PROM DANCE TRUE ROMANCE

My date was the ballerina and Homecoming Queen Sondra James at the Long Beach California Jordan High School big event in 1970. Although this…

Cynthia Santacroce vodka bottles (photo credit: Gabriel King)

May 31, 2026

DEAN GRAY vs. FALSE ALLEGATIONS ON JUDGE JUDY TELEVISON SHOW

An online news article continues damaging his reputation. He took the car keys from a drunk Cynthia Santacroce to prevent her from driving her car. She hit him in the belly, the police arrived to detain him, and he went to the hospital for treatments. This resulted in their appearing on the Judge Judy television show and Gray winning the money as seen by 50 million viewers.

The smear of a domestic violence accusation is a tough stain to clean up

His girlfriend was not hurt. He was.

“I’ve never been hit so hard since I was ten years old,” Gray said according to the police report.

Our home in San Marino, Varzi, Pavia, Italy

September 14, 2025

OUR ITALIAN HOME

Our home is in the frazione of San Martino, Comune of Varzi, Province of Pavia, Region of Lombardia, Italy. The building is now undergoing…

September 10, 2025

MY FIRST RADIO

Before the internet and before transiter radios this was a radio without batteries – a present from my Dad to me sometime in 1962 when I was ten years old. No instructions were included. Tuning in radio stations on this weird golf ball size device requirred a slight twist of the thng at the top.

September 10, 2025

PINK FLOYD & MORE

The band began in England in 1965. However, Pink Floyd’s first US tour was in 1968. I was there at age 16, receiving an exciting and inspiring experience. Shorly after Pink Floyd took the stage I was casually laying flat, spread out on soft green Astroturf covering the floor when the cumulative effect of my inebriated high caused me to simply let go, turning my head, quietly and smoothly vomiting on my arm. One year later the band cost me to lose my job. Finally, in recent years, I explored Cambridge to unearth their roots.

Modern Dance Class, Jordan High School, 1969 Long Beach California

September 10, 2025

THE 1969 MODERN DANCE CLASS

I lusted over them all but the closest I ever got was taking Sondra James, our Homecoming Queen, to the prom. I had an unusual fetish for their big hair and was fascinated by the shake and shimmy of their teasingly maturing bodie. This stimulated me to dream about smooth pink flesh jiggling beneath the thin fabric of Spandex leotard armor.

September 10, 2025

HOW IT ALL BEGAN

My life sustaining umbilical cord was wrapped around my baby neck like a noose. It was short and tight, hanging me, holding me back from being born. I had to come alive but could not. Going forward was impossible and so was staying back.

September 9, 2025

SURFER GIRL LORI & THE CULT OF TONY ALAMO

Relating an imteresting encounter with a California surfer girl and the Lighthouse Cafe in Hollywood along with the religious cult preaching California would split and sink into the Pacific Ocean.

September 9, 2025

PLEASURES OF OUR DONUT VICE

We crowded around like addicts at a methadone clinic, nervous and jittery like, unable to stand still and happy sick from the sweet smell of donuts making us crazy high on a sugar rush after a long day as slaves to education absently learning to read and write and coexist with classmates faster and better than us or slower and more quiet than us. It was thanklessly hard and grinding work for us little kids.

September 9, 2025

I LOST MY VIRGINITY AT THE CIRCLE DRIVE-IN THEATER

To understand how and where I lost my virginity, it is necessary to know the drive-in theater and a bit about my life at age eighteen in the year 1969.

I was lusting for her ever since catching her making goo goo eyes at me from the other side of the classroom. She was cute, with big blue eyes, and often wore brightly colored flowery short dresses challenging the length requirements of the school’s outdated and repressive dress codes. I specifically recall she had an exceptionally good looking pair of… knees.